Hi Simon, Welcome to this weeks Get COACHd on Friday. I am about to meet a client for the first time. This is somebody that I have been wanting to work with for some time and I am feeling slightly anxious. I should know better, as I have been coaching for years and have had lots of meetings like this. I still get jittery and excited. Taking a step back, I remember that I need to ensure that I am there for my client both in person and mentally. Preparation of my state is so key. I remember a quick trick that can help me. Not having time for a full body meditation, I do have time to focus on breathing. I close my eyes and focus on an imaginary pulsating light that moves in and out as my chest expands and contracts. I concentrate on reducing the pulses and find that my breathing rate has also slowed. I feel more in control, and more in the moment for my session. This short form of meditation is useful. For those that may have jumped into virtual reality, there is an app called Tripp that does just this. It links visual stimuli to breathing and presence. Tripp also is available for mobile (Android or iPhone). As you explore the importance of breathing – I hope you can explore perhaps the new sensations that this can bring. Enjoy the play and now to the reading! _____________________________________ |